For a healthy sex life you need to know the basics of sex, and this starts with your private bits. Yes, you cannot fully enjoy your sexual experience if you do not know what goes where.
So here’s everything you need to know about vagina and how to navigate your body:
Mons Veneris: This is a fancy word for the area right below your abdomen and above where the vagina openings start (above your labia), it’s the top of your pubic area and is made of fatty tissues covering your pubic bone. It might be sensitive to touch with some women but it mainly serves to protect your pubic bone during sex.
Labia Majora: This is the fatty area framing your vagina and it’s commonly known as the outer lips of your vagina. The Labia Majora is responsible for your ‘scent’, in a good sense, they have sweat and oil glands that emit scents to arouse your partner.
Labia Minora: These are the inner lips of your vagina and they’re located right inside the Labia Majora. That’s the thin, sort of crooked tissue that serves to protect your vagina, clitoris and urethra and it varies in shapes, sizes and colors from one woman to another and can either hide inside the outer lips or extend outside of it. In fact, it varies so much that some women choose to get plastic surgeries to make them the size or shape they desire. This area is sensitive and can be arousing during foreplay and intercourse. If your partner ignores the inner lips and goes right in, gently guide him towards them; before heavy oral action, try some gentle rubbing, kissing and tongue action on the inner lips.
Clitoris: Now, this is important, so pay attention: clitoris is the ultimate gateway to an awesome intercourse so you’d better pay attention to it. It is the small, oval, whitish, spongy bit right above your inner lips. Even though the external part of your clitoris can be as small as a rice grain, it is actually a gland that extends about 10 centimeters inside your body. It is covered by a soft tissue of skin, the clitoris hood, that might cover it totally or might leave a bit of it showing. When aroused, the clitoris hood retracts and more of the clitoris shows. This is why it might be too sensitive to the touch during intercourse and your partner might want to use his lips and tongues instead of rubbing. The clitoris is a truly sexually sensitive organ and indirect gentle stimulation can really get you in the mood. If you’re too sensitive to have it directly stimulated, get your partner to rub it before you take off your panties or use his tongue instead. When you’re in the missionary position, the rubbing of your partner against the clitoris can be very arousing, but if the position doesn’t allow for this friction, get your partner to gently rub it using a well-moistened finger, try your natural fluids or a good lubricant for that.
The clitoris and the inner lips are responsible for much of the female arousal and orgasm and can both make or break her sexual experience. This is why some families in the Middle East and Africa still choose to circumcise their daughters, removing one or both of these organs to curb women’s sexual desires. Women can still achieve orgasm through intercourse with both these organs removed, but her sexual desires decrease and it becomes harder for her to orgasm as only 30% of women can achieve orgasm through intercourse.
Urethra: This might be news to you; but you have two different openings; the urethra is the opening below the clitoris and it is only for urination, it is only connected to your bladder and has nothing to do with your sexual experience or menstruation.
Hymen: The hymen is a very thin membrane that partially covers your vaginal opening; meaning a normal hymen shouldn’t be fully covering your vagina, otherwise menstrual blood is trapped inside. In some cases, however, the hymen is totally closed off and needs surgical help to create small openings in the membrane to allow for the blood to flow when menstruation begins. The hymen is torn during intercourse, although in some cases the tissue is elastic and will not tear during the first intercourse. Even though the hymen is a symbol of virginity, it can be torn playing sports and in many cases the tearing of the hymen during intercourse doesn’t cause any bleeding.
Vagina: Even though this whole area is often referred to as your vagina, the vagina is the tube between the vaginal opening and your cervix, which leads to your uterus. The size of a vagina varies from one woman to the other and it can widen after birth. The average length of a vagina is about 7.5 centimeters but it extends and becomes lubricated during intercourse to receive the penis and then contracts to keep the sperm inside for conception.
G-Spot: This is a highly controversial term as researchers have not settled the argument of whether females have a G-Spot or not. So if there is, indeed, a G-Spot in women, it should be located near the bladder, which means pressure on this spot may be highly uncomfortable for some women.
So here’s everything you need to know about vagina and how to navigate your body:
Mons Veneris: This is a fancy word for the area right below your abdomen and above where the vagina openings start (above your labia), it’s the top of your pubic area and is made of fatty tissues covering your pubic bone. It might be sensitive to touch with some women but it mainly serves to protect your pubic bone during sex.
Labia Majora: This is the fatty area framing your vagina and it’s commonly known as the outer lips of your vagina. The Labia Majora is responsible for your ‘scent’, in a good sense, they have sweat and oil glands that emit scents to arouse your partner.
Labia Minora: These are the inner lips of your vagina and they’re located right inside the Labia Majora. That’s the thin, sort of crooked tissue that serves to protect your vagina, clitoris and urethra and it varies in shapes, sizes and colors from one woman to another and can either hide inside the outer lips or extend outside of it. In fact, it varies so much that some women choose to get plastic surgeries to make them the size or shape they desire. This area is sensitive and can be arousing during foreplay and intercourse. If your partner ignores the inner lips and goes right in, gently guide him towards them; before heavy oral action, try some gentle rubbing, kissing and tongue action on the inner lips.
Clitoris: Now, this is important, so pay attention: clitoris is the ultimate gateway to an awesome intercourse so you’d better pay attention to it. It is the small, oval, whitish, spongy bit right above your inner lips. Even though the external part of your clitoris can be as small as a rice grain, it is actually a gland that extends about 10 centimeters inside your body. It is covered by a soft tissue of skin, the clitoris hood, that might cover it totally or might leave a bit of it showing. When aroused, the clitoris hood retracts and more of the clitoris shows. This is why it might be too sensitive to the touch during intercourse and your partner might want to use his lips and tongues instead of rubbing. The clitoris is a truly sexually sensitive organ and indirect gentle stimulation can really get you in the mood. If you’re too sensitive to have it directly stimulated, get your partner to rub it before you take off your panties or use his tongue instead. When you’re in the missionary position, the rubbing of your partner against the clitoris can be very arousing, but if the position doesn’t allow for this friction, get your partner to gently rub it using a well-moistened finger, try your natural fluids or a good lubricant for that.
The clitoris and the inner lips are responsible for much of the female arousal and orgasm and can both make or break her sexual experience. This is why some families in the Middle East and Africa still choose to circumcise their daughters, removing one or both of these organs to curb women’s sexual desires. Women can still achieve orgasm through intercourse with both these organs removed, but her sexual desires decrease and it becomes harder for her to orgasm as only 30% of women can achieve orgasm through intercourse.
Urethra: This might be news to you; but you have two different openings; the urethra is the opening below the clitoris and it is only for urination, it is only connected to your bladder and has nothing to do with your sexual experience or menstruation.
Hymen: The hymen is a very thin membrane that partially covers your vaginal opening; meaning a normal hymen shouldn’t be fully covering your vagina, otherwise menstrual blood is trapped inside. In some cases, however, the hymen is totally closed off and needs surgical help to create small openings in the membrane to allow for the blood to flow when menstruation begins. The hymen is torn during intercourse, although in some cases the tissue is elastic and will not tear during the first intercourse. Even though the hymen is a symbol of virginity, it can be torn playing sports and in many cases the tearing of the hymen during intercourse doesn’t cause any bleeding.
Vagina: Even though this whole area is often referred to as your vagina, the vagina is the tube between the vaginal opening and your cervix, which leads to your uterus. The size of a vagina varies from one woman to the other and it can widen after birth. The average length of a vagina is about 7.5 centimeters but it extends and becomes lubricated during intercourse to receive the penis and then contracts to keep the sperm inside for conception.
G-Spot: This is a highly controversial term as researchers have not settled the argument of whether females have a G-Spot or not. So if there is, indeed, a G-Spot in women, it should be located near the bladder, which means pressure on this spot may be highly uncomfortable for some women.
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